Tuesday, May 22, 2012

I was stoned...

Kidney stoned!  Let me tell you, I've never had a kidney stone before, and to get my first one at 6+ months pregnant...NO FUN!  So that's why I missed my 24 week update, and any other blog post since the beginning of last week.
I woke up Thursday with some back pain, figured I just slept wrong because let's face it, I'm pregnant and with that comes back pain!  Jumped in the shower and the pain just got worse.  Tried to lay down on the couch, feet elevated, again, worse.  I finally was in so much pain I called the Dr's office.  When they told me that my doc was out of the office until Monday and sent me to Labor and Delivery, I freaked out.  I was NOT ready to deliver, I was NOT ready to face this.  I was certainly not ready to have a premature baby, not 15 weeks premature especially!!  I went and woke up J, just as calmly as I could and off we went.
I was near tears in the car.  It seemed that every block we drove, more pain.  By the time we got to the hospital (we live out in the country, it was a LONG ride) I could barely walk.  I filled out my paperwork and sat down.  When the nurse got me and asked me my pain level on a scale of 0-10, 10 being the worst pain of your entire life, I said 9.
They hooked me up to all of the monitors, we could hear Pierce's heartbeat steadily thumping away at an average of 140 beats per minute.  That was a great relief.  Then we heard this crazy THUD, THUD, SWOOP, every few beats.  I could feel what it was, but of course J didn't know what it was.  I explained to him that it was Pierce kicking, punching, or swatting at the monitor lol.  He does NOT like anything putting pressure on my belly, even a little.
Once we knew that the back pain had nothing to do with Pierce, J and I sighed a huge sigh of relief.  When we knew that, I was given an IV and pain meds!  THANK YOU!  Stadoll is awesome lol.  J has several crazy stories of what I said during the 2 hours I was affected by the meds.  First thing, as soon as it hit me, I turned and looked at him, wide-eyed, and said, "I FEEL CRAZY!"  Apparently I told the ultrasound tech who was checking my kidneys and bladder, "Just a warning, I don't have any pants on, you might see my shiny white butt...but you probably see a lot of those"  Poor guy.  I told J that the lights in the ceiling looked like frog eyes staring at me.  I told J's aunt, and father, that I didn't want any visitors because...I had no pants.  Seeing a recurring theme?  His mother came to sit with us as I was getting off of my high, I also told her I had on no pants.  I do not like people visiting me when I have no pants on...even when I am covered in a blanket and in excruciating pain.
I don't remember much of Thursday night-Saturday night.  I would take my pain meds every 4 hours, but the pain came back between 2 and 3 hours.  I don't sleep when I'm on pain medication.  I get loopy and drowsy, but might drift off for about an hour.  So, I barely slept for almost 4 days.
Saturday night I was in an amazing amount of pain, so much pain that J wanted to take me back to the hospital.  I think that's when the kidney stone was moving.  The last pain I had was Sunday morning at 530, I was shaking and crying, took my pain meds and drifted off to sleep at some point.  I woke up, SHOCKED, at noon realizing I had a)slept that long b)was in no pain.  I was scared to get up!  But, I eventually did and just found that I was extremely sore.  Like a heavyweight boxer had used my right side as a punching bag.  I was exhausted all day Sunday, and sluggish on Monday.
I'm happy to report, for the most part, I've been pain free since Sunday morning and haven't had to take any meds.  I'm still sore, and will still get a muscle crampy feeling in my side from time to time.  But, I think that's from my tendency to tense the entire right side of my core while I was hurting.

The nurse told me she had had a kidney stone in the past, and has had 2 children...she said labor will be nothing.  Yay? lol

So, here's hoping I never have another kidney stone...and I wouldn't wish this on ANYONE, not even my worst enemy

Tuesday, May 15, 2012

Only complaint about my 3 day weekend....

It didn't last long enough!!  lol

I took of Saturday to go to my best friend's baby shower.  Ashley and I have been bff since we were 5 years old.  Met in kindergarten at one school, when that school (private school) shut down after our first year together, our parents could have sent us each to other schools.  Since we lived in totally different school zones, it was fate that put us in another private school in the same class 1st-6th grade.  Fate played a role in our lives again, when both of our fathers (who worked at the same car plant) were transferred.  Again, we could have each been transferred anywhere in the country.  We ended up in North Alabama.  In this area, there were a million different probabilities for our schools, cities, and even counties.  Somehow, some way, our parents bought houses in the same county, in the same school district.  We didn't get put in any of the same classes, but still saw each other and had the same group of friends.  We graduated high school together, and went on with our lives.  We have remained very close.  I love that girl!  She knows me better than anyone, until J came along lol.
So, our parents were NOT surprised when she got pregnant, and exactly 4 weeks later...here I am!  LOL.  To quote her mother on facebook: "Ashley and Amanda have done everything together since kindergarten. They are due one month apart. lol"  
Her shower was monster themed, and was SO cute!  (I didn't take any pics during the shower, shame on me...so I've taken these pics from Ashley's mother's facebook...)
Our high school friends were there, we all just fell into the same groove...after not being together in over 10 years.  It really was just a nice, refreshing break from my every day.  
Summer got the CUTEST cake ever for the shower...not to mention TASTIEST!  I may have eaten two pieces of cake!  lol
Ashley's sister, Shana, made this way too cute monster diaper cake:
And, Ashley's mother made these little guys...I may BEG her to make Pierce some:
My favorites are the one eyed-buck toothed guy, and the 3 eyed guy!


My one and only request from Ashley was that she and I get a picture together...because I'm still adamant about Pierce being an only child lol.  Who knows if we'll ever be pregnant together again, much less 4 weeks apart!!  


Both pregnant with boys, I'm carrying low, she's carrying high!
I went home and crashed the rest of that day!  It was a fun day!  Ashley now lives in Tennessee, and we've only seen each other one other time while we were pregnant...we both said something to the effect of: Wow, you're bigger than I expected!  LOL...but that's what happens when a)we last saw each other at 16 and 12 weeks and b)I wear a striped dress...haha


Sunday, J and I did a whole lot of nothing...just what I wanted!!  His family came over and we had cake (it was my weekend for YUMMY cake...).  J had to leave to go to work, and I just laid in bed and watched television all night.  It was wonderful!!


J and I lazed around yesterday too...wow, I sound SUPER lazy!  
We met my darling friend, Emily and her too cute son Nathan, for dinner at my favorite place.  I introduced her into the downward spiral that is my favorite plate of nachos!  Our evening entertainment was Nathan!  He is obsessed with super heroes, and this certain little man wouldn't eat his dinner.  He had proclaimed that he was Superman, so Emily says, "Superman needs to sit down and eat his dinner"  Nathan's perfectly timed come back, he's almost 3 so it was even more funny because of his age, "Superman doesn't like that"  It is SO hard not to laugh in that situation!  You certainly don't want to encourage the behavior, but oh my goodness, HILARIOUS!  
We left there and went to an ice cream shop, delish!  As soon as the sugar hit Nathan, he was booty dancing at the table.  There was no stifling that laughter.  He's the most adorable red head.  If Emily had posted pics on her blog or facebook of his ice cream face I would share.  TOO CUTE!


And, now it's back to reality...back to work.  Boo.  lol

Friday, May 11, 2012

99 Bottles of.....water?

I guess, for now, I have to sing 99 bottles of water on the wall.
We went to the dr this morning, for our check on Pierce.  He's doing well, moving about like a champ, and does NOT like anything intruding on his space!  She pressed the Doppler on my belly and searched on the right side...no dice.  Searched the left, found it, then he ran away!  She found it again and his heart rate was good and strong between 130-140...because he was so busy trying to run away from her!!
I'm measuring right on schedule!  Yay for no huge belly!
And, my biggest victory, this is the least amount of weight I have gained between appointments!  I had gained a little too much, so I was glad that this time I had only gained 3 pounds.  I can look at pics and tell that that is all in the belly!!
And, I learned that the little mild cramps I've been having are Braxton-Hicks...yay!  Already?  Ugh.  Oh well.  From what I understand everyone has them, it's just a matter of if you actually feel them.  I feel them in my back mostly...not a big fan!  I was told to just relax with my feet up and drink water.  I'm thankful we have a stool at work!

I usually do Fur Baby Friday, but lately  Sully looks pretty scraggly.  Little monster needs a haircut!!  So, today I saw this on Raven's blog and thought I would play along...


1. Started your own blog 
Yup, June 3, 2011....Blog Virgin
dang a LOT has changed since then!
2. Slept under the stars
once when I was 5, camping with family...
again for my 13th birthday, camping in the back yard
3. Played in a band
nope, NOT musically gifted, unless you count the kazoo
4. Visited Hawaii
I WISH!
5. Watched a meteor shower
Yes, we had one this past winter
6. Given more than you can afford to charity
Sadly, I can't say I have, but I have donated a TON of clothing...
7. Been to Disneyland 
not even Disneyworld =(
8. Climbed a mountain
If you count what we call mountains around here in North Alabama, yes, I have! lol
See?  At the top!
9. Held a praying mantis
No, not holding one of those wicked looking things...
10. Sang a solo
No, thank you!  Sang in the church choir, I'll sing with a group all day
11. Bungee jumped 
I haven't found the cajones to do that yet
12. Visited Paris
13. Watched a lightening storm
I live in Tornado Hell, I've seen a million lightening storms
14. Taught yourself an art from scratch
can't say that I have...or at least that's coming to mind
15. Adopted a child
nope.
16. Had food poisoning
Oh good grief, yes.  Lasted 48 hours, pure torture.  I have never in my life been so sick...and I've had bronchitis for 6 weeks, pneumonia for 2 weeks, and once had an ear, throat, and sinus infection all at the same time
17. Walked to the top of the Statue of Liberty
nope
18. Grown your own vegetables
nope
19. Seen the Mona Lisa in France
and nope again...
20. Slept on an overnight train
never been on a train...unless you count the time my bff, Ashley, and I played on a retired caboose at the original Whistle Stop Cafe...more history on the movie Fried Green Tomatoes
21. Had a pillow fight
My brother and I 
22. Hitch hiked
ooooh no, I've seen the horror movies!
23. Taken a sick day when you’re not ill
who hasn't?  I don't any more, I schedule my "mental health" days lol
24. Built a snow fort
HA, I live in north Alabama, we don't get enough snow to build a fort
25. Held a lamb
No, but they're dang cute
26. Gone skinny dipping
Nope, never brave enough
27. Run a Marathon
a 5k, not a marathon
28. Ridden in a gondola in Venice
nope!
29. Seen a total eclipse
Yes! I was in 4th grade on a field trip to Biloxi, MS to a biology research place...it was pretty neat
30. Watched a sunrise or sunset
both...when you've worked 6p-6a you've seen both in one day!
31. Hit a home run
HA, I can't hit the broad side of a barn with a ball bat...I played soccer for a reason
32. Been on a cruise
not yet
33. Seen Niagara Falls in person
I'm starting to feel sheltered, no to this one too
34. Visited the birthplace of your ancestors
Well, I haven't been to Ireland or Germany...so no
35. Seen an Amish community
No, live really dang close to several and haven't visited
36. Taught yourself a new language
Not hardly
37. Had enough money to be truly satisfied 
I try to be satisfied with everything in my life...but who is every truly satisfied with their financial situation unless you're a multi-millionaire? 
38. Seen the Leaning Tower of Pisa in person
nope, here's that lack of culture thing again
39. Gone rock climbing 
I'm a wimp and don't think I have the strength...and don't want to find out that I don't by falling off of the wall!
40. Seen Michelangelo’s David
nnegative
41. Sung karaoke
no.  way.  in.  the.  world.
42. Seen Old Faithful geyser erupt
newp
43. Bought a stranger a meal at a restaurant
gave a homeless guy everything but my burger from Mcdonalds...count?
44. Visited Africa
No thanks...it's HOT there didn't you know?  I live in the South...plenty heat here
45. Walked on a beach by moonlight
Yes
46. Been transported in an ambulance
not for my own ailments, but for a total strangers...several strangers in one day.
Confused?
When I worked for 911, they had us ride with the ambulance service to see what they do in the field...I decided they didn't get paid enough to do that job!
47. Had your portrait painted
nope
48. Gone deep sea fishing
I don't enjoy shallow fishing...lol
49. Seen the Sistine Chapel in person
nopes
50. Been to the top of the Eiffel Tower in Paris
now tell me, if I haven't been to Paris, how could I have been to the top of the Eiffel Tower?
51. Gone scuba diving or snorkeling
In a pool...does that count?  lol  Something tells me it doesn't
52. Kissed in the rain
Other than a peck...no.  As my mother would say, "God gave you sense to come in out of the rain!"
53. Played in the mud
Heck yeah, what kid hasn't?
54. Gone to a drive-in theater
No, not many of them around here
55. Been in a movie 
do homemade movies count?
56. Visited the Great Wall of China
That culture thing again!
57. Started a business
I sold Scentsy for a while....
58. Taken a martial arts class
I don't think fitness kickboxing counts...but I rocked
59. Visited Russia
newp
60. Served at a soup kitchen
No
61. Sold Girl Scout Cookies
I always thought Girl Scouts were weenies, even as a kid...lol
62. Gone whale watching
oooh, one day.  And I will cry
63. Got flowers for no reason
Yes, because my husband is amazing
We had been living together 3 days, I came home and found this!
And, I've gotten my favorite, Tulips, for absolutely no reason! 
64. Donated blood, platelets or plasma
I'm O+, so I tried to give as often as possible prepregnancy
65. Gone sky diving 
Not even on the list of things I want to do!
66. Visited a Nazi Concentration Camp
I went to the Holocaust Memorial Museum as a 12 year old...That's the first time I remember being emotionally moved to tears 
67. Bounced a check
ugh, who hasn't as a young adult first on their own?  Blerg.  Took care of it though!
68. Flown in a helicopter
No, and no thank you
69. Saved a favorite childhood toy
I have a pic of all of my toys I saved!  Minus my Barbies, my mother still has those
Meet Raggedy Ann and Andy (Made by hand by my Mama just for me), Pickles the bear, Bunny (I was really original), Snuggle Bear, and Winnie the Pooh and Tigger too!

70. Visited the Lincoln Memorial
Yes I have! Some brave souls took our 6th grade class to Washington D.C.!
71. Eaten Caviar
absolutely NOT
72. Pieced a quilt
nope
73. Stood in Times Square
Never been to NYC
74. Toured the Everglades
Not the Everglades, but I have been to Silver Springs, and would love to go back!
75. Been fired from a job
Nope
76. Seen the Changing of the Guards in London
Never crossed the pond
77. Broken a bone
Pinky toes count?  They're bones!
78. Been a passenger on a motorcycle
Last I remember, I was 3/4 years old and held on to the gas tank cover for DEAR LIFE!  I remember enjoying it, but also being scared to death
79. Seen the Grand Canyon in person
No, not really interested actually
80. Published a book
Nope
81. Visited the Vatican
Not yet
82. Bought a brand new car
J and I did!  Just shy of 2 months after we started dating and one month before getting engaged!  You can say we were pretty sure about what we had together lol
83. Walked in Jerusalem
that whole never-crossed-the-pond bit...
84. Had your picture in the newspaper
As a kid
85. Kissed a stranger at midnight on New Year’s Eve
no way, Jose
86. Visited the White House
We were going to visit the White House on my 6th grade D.C trip, but the World Trade Center had been bombed a few months prior and we weren't allowed in the gates...because a bunch of 11 year olds were a terror threat? LOL, I get it, I do.  
87. Killed and prepared an animal for eating
NO!  I caught fish as a kid, then Daddy cleaned and cooked them!
88. Had chickenpox
3rd Grade...just a few, but it was the best week out of school ever since I didn't feel poorly at all!
89. Saved someone’s life
I'm sure, nothing specific that I can remember, but I worked at 911 answering emergency calls from 2003-2007 almost 2008...and I've been working for law enforcement dispatch for 2 years now...so I'm sure.
90. Sat on a jury
Not yet, though with my law enforcement history I'm sure I'd be sent home
91. Met someone famous
3rd Grade...prior to chickenpox I think...George H. Bush came to the local air field and our class went to greet him.  He went down the line and shook everyone's hands...we were lined up in alphabetical order...I was a W, and was the LAST kid.  The last.  One more hand to shake, then a wall.  One more.  HE SHOOK MY FRIEND'S HAND THEN LEFT!  STOPPED, DIDN'T TOUCH MY HAND!  WTH?!  Yeah, still bitter lol
92. Joined a book club
um...no
93. Got a tattoo
nope, not yet
94. Had a baby
again, not yet...ask again in Sept lol
95. Seen the Alamo in person
Nope
96. Swam in the Great Salt Lake
i'm told I've seen it, but I don't remember
97. Been involved in a law suit
nono
98. Owned a cell phone
 I have a pic of my first two!

99. Been stung by a bee
once, luckily only once

Thursday, May 10, 2012

23 Weeks

23 Weeks!
Wow, are we really down to less than 17 weeks?!
I'm about to start the freaking out phase...ya'll will pull me back to reality, right?




How far along are you? 
23 Weeks

Total weight gain: 
I'm feeling like a beached whale...already.  
Just kidding, slightly.  It's not that bad really.  

How big is baby?:
What to Expect says an ear of corn.  And right now, I'd love to sink my teeth into a delicious, buttery ear of Silver Queen corn...yum.  That sounds heavenly.  

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Maternity clothes
Always...except for my pajamas...that's usually worth a giggle or two the past few weeks.  My belly pokes out from under the shirt unless I steal J's Army tshirts that are forever long for some reason
Now I've started just wearing a sports bra and undies, can you say COMFORTABLE?!

Stretch marks?:  
None, yet.  
Still applying Palmers religiously
But I've started getting spider veins on my belly?!  
I guess because I'm so white and just don't tan

Sleep?: 
Seems to be getting restless, I'm wondering if Pierce is moving around and that wakes me.  But, I sleep so soundly that I don't feel it
I've started waking up between 430 and 630 every morning, tossing and turning for an hour or more

Best moment this week?:
I don't know about BEST, but funniest:
J and I were riding home after dinner the other day...I had had 2 HUGE glasses of ice water and a bottle full.  Needless to say, I had to pee!!  I was doing ok, was going to make it home, until Pierce decided that he was going to use my FULL bladder for a trampoline!
Can you say oddest feeling ever?!  J started laughing at me, which made me laugh, which doesn't help the situation!  This went on for 15 minutes, luckily, I made it home!

Movement?: 
All day!  He's an active little fellow!

Food cravings?:
Still...
Popcicles!  At least I'm eating sugar free lol
and sweet sweet seedless watermelon!  YUM!

Food aversions?:
Not too bad, kind of depends on the day

Labor signs?: 
NO!  Stay put Baby!

Belly button in or out?: 
In...not sure if I think it will or won't pop

What I miss: 
bending over, putting my pants on normally...I have to do some wide legged, sitting down, funny dance and can imagine it's only going to get worse lol

What I'm looking forward to: 
getting our place so I can set up Pierce's nursery

What I'm not looking forward to: 
Summer, I'm already hot! 
We've already hit 91 degrees!

Milestone: 
I guess jumping on my bladder like it's a moon bounce!!  LOL

Tuesday, May 8, 2012

Flaunt a Friend!! EMILY!




This is my first link-up for Flaunt a Friend, since I was flaunted by the Sassy Ms Ginger, I figured I would pass along the favor!
Since I'm the one that pestered her to start a blog, I'm hoping to get her some views because ya'll will love her as much as I do!  Who, you ask?

Emily at everyDay Emily.  She is one of my best friends, and a coworker.  She is in her mid 20s, married with an almost 3 year old little redhead!  Her son is adorable and obsessed with super-heros...poor Emmy!  LOL.
Emily has her associates degree and her bachelors in Criminal Justice...and she is currently pursuing her Masters!!  I'm proud of her.  She's a wife, mother, employed full-time, and is still going after her Masters.  I always fuss at her for doing too much, but she does it and accomplishes what she sets her mind on.

She's just starting her blog, and I'd love to see her really enjoy it as much as I do!  Ya'll go say hi!!


Friday, May 4, 2012

Moving on!

Finally!  We are moving on with our lives!  We signed a lease today for our new apartment.  It has everything we need.  Fits in our budget, includes water (heck yeah!), and is CLOSE to work for both of us.  So close we can both go home on lunch breaks, which means less money spent on eating out because we can just make food at home!  PLUS, with us only having one car, less gas spent driving back and forth!  WHOO HOO!

We'll be moved in in time to get Pierce's nursery set up, and make the rest of the apartment our home.  It'll be nice to be settled in when he comes (we hope all goes to plan!!).

It's been really nice to live so near his family, and even though it was supposed to be a temporary situation while J was in boot camp, it turned into a more permanent one.  We'll be forever grateful for the gift we've been given.

So, soon enough, we'll start packing up again, thank fully 90% of it is still packed in storage!  We get to move in July!!  Now, to find a decently priced internet and cable provider...ugh!

Thursday, May 3, 2012

22 Weeks

First, let me apologize for being such a crappy blogger!  I haven't been feeling fabulous, not bad, but certainly not amazing.  Just worn out!  We're trying to find an apartment, because, while we SO appreciate being able to live with J's grandmother for almost a year.  But, it's totally not right, and the last thing we wanted to do, to continue living there with a new born.  Plus, we're ready to have our own space again.  We've been looking, with a limited budget because we do not want to overextend ourselves with Pierce on the way!  We may have found a place!  Close to work even!  So...more on that later!

22 Weeks
I completely forgot to take a pic today!  Check back, I hope to add one later!

How far along are you? 
22 Weeks

Total weight gain: 
I'm feeling like a beached whale...already.  
Just kidding, slightly.  It's not that bad really.  

How big is baby?:
What to expect says a papaya.  As I do not eat papayas, I had it in my mind that a papaya is smaller than last week's spaghetti squash!
But, I can tell that, no matter the produce, Pierce has grown!

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well, snap, I was WRONG, that sucker is big!! lol
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Maternity clothes
Always...except for my pajamas...that's usually worth a giggle or two the past few weeks.  My belly pokes out from under the shirt unless I steal J's Army tshirts that are forever long for some reason
Now I've started just wearing a sports bra and undies, can you say COMFORTABLE?!

Stretch marks?:  
None, yet.  
Still applying Palmers religiously
But I've started getting spider veins on my belly?!  
I guess because I'm so white and just don't tan

Sleep?: 
Seems to be getting restless, I'm wondering if Pierce is moving around and that wakes me.  But, I sleep so soundly that I don't feel it
Last night I woke up with a stabbing pain in my back, on my left side above my hip.  Kept me awake and almost in tears for about an hour then it stopped just as quickly as it started!
Whatever that was, it can stay away!  I didn't worry about Pierce because it never left my back, and he was still wiggling away, so I knew he was ok

Best moment this week?:
Pierce kicked hard enough to move my hand while it was resting on my belly!
J had his head on my belly one night and got kicked!  It was his first real time to feel him!

Movement?: 
Daily, and some days all day.  he's become an active little guy

Food cravings?:
Still...
Popcicles!  At least I'm eating sugar free lol
and sweet sweet seedless watermelon!  YUM!

Food aversions?:
Not too bad, kind of depends on the day

Labor signs?: 
NO!  Stay put Baby!

Belly button in or out?: 
In...not sure if I think it will or won't pop

What I miss: 
bending over, putting my pants on normally...I have to do some wide legged, sitting down, funny dance and can imagine it's only going to get worse lol

What I'm looking forward to: 
getting our place so I can set up Pierce's nursery

What I'm not looking forward to: 
Summer, I'm already hot! 
We've already hit 91 degrees!

Milestone: 
Knowing Baby is a BOY, and knowing his name.
He has an identity!
Making his registry at Target!!